God truly works in mysterious ways ... I found these words in my email inbox last night ... they were contained in a powerpoint presentation ... sent from a girlfriend over a thousand miles away ... she had/has no idea the desperation I was feeling last night; yet these words, these very, very powerful and COMFORTING words were given to me ... at the very moment I needed them most. To Cathy, I thank you for this gift!
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A little boy asks his mother:
Why do you cry?
Because I am a woman, she answers
I don't understand, he says
His mother hugs him and says,
And you never will
Later, the little boy asked his father:
Why does Mommy cry?
All women cry for no reason,
is all that his father could answer
When he became an adult, he asked God:
God, why do women cry so easily?
God answered:
When I created woman, she needed to be special
I created her shoulders strong enough to bear the weight of the world ...
and soft enough to be comfortable
I gave her the strength to give life ...
the kind that accepts the rejection that often comes from her own children
I gave her the strength to allow her to go on when everybody else gives up ...
the kind that takes care of her family, despite illness and fatigue
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children unconditionally ...
even when they have hurt her deeply
And fianlly, I gave her tears to shed whenever she needs them to be shed ...
You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
nor is it in her face or in the way she does her hair
The beauty of a woman resides in her eyes
It is the door to her heart;
the door where Love resides
And it is often through her tears
that you see her heart go by
About Me

- Terri Anderson O'Byrne
- A Scorpio, I am. Sign of water/sexuality. Emotion. Myers/Briggs personality test resulted INTF (Introvert, Intuition, Feeling, Perceiving) 100% accurate! Only 1% of the world pop. has this personality type; the other 99% has trouble relating to INTF's! I am extremely introverted, can handle noise/crowds for exactly 1 hour before retreating to the quiet or my music somewhere. Oddly enough, I am drawn to customer service. I know these things: I love who I am! I love emotion. I am vulnerable. I care deeply. I love. And I love deeply. I will wait it out for return. I long to be loved. My children are my world. Nature is my solace, my constant, my peace. I hear each bird's tweet, adore shapes in the clouds, share the moon with everyone I know, smile at the song of my windchimes, wonder at the growth of a flower, drive to chase sunsets, enjoy a great storm, relax fully when the ocean is outside my door. My favorite word is dance. Dance represents how I strive to live..to a beat that allows my body and soul to release in rhythm. I am over 50 now. Dance with me ... while there is still time!
If you feel you must go Brendan ... then go. Do not think for even one moment that my love will not transcend and pierce anything and everything that may come between us. I AM a good mother; despite your difference in opinion at the moment. You will never live far enough away that my love can't reach you. I will respect your choice; and, I will wait for you to understand some day, the role of parenting and the differences of style amongst different children as family dynamics and life changes all intermix. With all of my love, as far as you go, for ever and ever ~ Mom
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